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A Pancreatic Cancer Survivor’s Journey: Embracing Life After Diagnosis
In a heartfelt recount of his battle with pancreatic cancer, Dave Paffenroth shares his remarkable story of resilience and hope. With the unwavering support of his wife, Wendy, Dave navigated through a series of challenging treatments that transformed his life. From initial symptoms to a successful recovery, his experience serves as an inspiring reminder of the strength found in love and determination.
Initial Symptoms and Diagnosis
In 2012, Dave was diagnosed with type 2 diabetes. However, his health took a drastic turn in October 2014 when he experienced rapid weight loss, losing nearly 40 pounds in just three months. His stools became pale, while his urine darkened to a tea-like color. Despite his doctor’s attempts to adjust medications, Dave felt increasingly unwell.
- Sudden weight loss
- Changes in stool and urine color
- Persistent abdominal pain
Realizing the gravity of his symptoms, Dave, a volunteer in his local ambulance corps, suspected pancreatic cancer. After persistent requests, he was finally referred to specialists who confirmed the presence of a tumor on his pancreas.
Urgent Treatment Needs
Before commencing cancer treatment, doctors discovered that Dave’s bile duct was blocked, requiring immediate stenting. Though he underwent the procedure, complications arose, leading to increased pain and jaundice. A neighbor, who was a physician, recommended contacting Dr. John Chabot at Columbia University Irving Medical Center. Thanks to Wendy’s quick actions, they expedited his care, which ultimately saved his life.
Chemotherapy and Whipple Procedure
Dr. Chabot determined that Dave was a candidate for the Whipple procedure, but first, he needed chemotherapy to shrink the tumor. On January 16, he received a port for chemotherapy. Under the care of Dr. Yvonne Saenger, Dave began treatment with a combination of gemcitabine and Abraxane.
- Initial chemotherapy regimen
- Successful tumor reduction
- Whipple surgery on March 10
To everyone’s surprise, Dave recovered from his surgery faster than expected, returning home after only three days. Despite the challenges, he managed to balance his treatment with work and family commitments, with Wendy meticulously tracking every detail.
Dealing with Side Effects and Recurrence
Post-surgery, the Whipple procedure introduced unexpected challenges, including digestive issues and bone pain due to medications. In June, Dave began experiencing additional complications from chemotherapy, leading to fluid retention and neuropathy. Despite these setbacks, he and Wendy pressed on, celebrating family milestones like their grandson’s christening in Tennessee.
However, in December, a follow-up scan revealed the cancer’s return. Adjusting his treatment plan to FOLFIRINOX, they continued battling the disease with determination.
A Journey Toward Remission
The new chemotherapy regimen proved effective; tumor markers decreased, and scans showed significant shrinkage. Following surgery for hernias caused by the original procedure, the surgeon found no signs of cancer. Regular check-ups transitioned from every three months to annually, and after years of vigilance, doctors confirmed Dave was in remission.
From Caregiver to Partner in Healing
Throughout this journey, Wendy played a crucial role as a caregiver. Her organized journal kept track of vital information, including medications and test results, which eased the burden of managing Dave’s health. She formed personal connections with the hospital staff, contributing to a supportive atmosphere during challenging times.
Embracing a New Chapter
Now at 70 years old, Dave reflects on his journey eight years post-diagnosis. Although he requires digestive enzymes for life, he feels grateful for the time he has shared with his family. Celebrating 47 years of marriage and witnessing significant family milestones, Dave’s outlook is one of hope and gratitude.
- Retired as an Agricultural Sales Rep after 51 years
- Continues volunteering as a fireman
- Focused on family and community
Dave credits his recovery to the exceptional care at Columbia and the countless prayers and support from his community. His mantra now is simple: “get on and live your life.” With a heart full of gratitude, he looks forward to creating more memories with his loved ones, proving that resilience and love can triumph over adversity.
