Unlocking the Extraordinary: A Journey Through My ‘Uninteresting’ Life

I was fortunate enough to get an early diagnosis of a rare pancreatic tumor, and my experience has transformed my outlook on life and health. Participating in a groundbreaking research study at the University of California San Diego (UCSD) led to the discovery of a malignant neoplasm in my pancreas, a diagnosis that initially shook my world. However, the support from an exceptional medical team has been invaluable in navigating this challenging journey.
Early Detection through Innovative Research
Back in September 2022, I underwent a comprehensive body scan and a routine colonoscopy, which revealed a suspicious cyst—something I had encountered before. A subsequent biopsy confirmed my worst fears: I had a malignant tumor at the tail of my pancreas. This discovery was made possible by my involvement in cutting-edge research at UCSD, emphasizing the importance of early detection in cancer treatment.
A Comprehensive Medical Team
Upon receiving my diagnosis, I was quickly connected with experts from the UCSD Health Pancreatic Cancer Program. Leading oncologist Dr. Paul Fanta and renowned surgeon Dr. Andrew Lowy became key figures in my care. Recognizing my complex medical history, my primary care physician, Dr. Marlene Millen, assembled an interdisciplinary team to streamline my treatment and provide holistic support. This collaborative approach has made a significant difference in my treatment journey.
Emotional Challenges and Family Support
Adding to the emotional weight of my diagnosis was the fact that my daughter had experienced a stroke just months earlier. This dual health crisis forced my family to reevaluate our priorities and focus on what truly matters. Thankfully, she has made impressive strides in her recovery, becoming a source of inspiration for me.
Monitoring My Condition
As I navigate this health challenge, my tumor is currently self-contained and has not metastasized. I undergo regular MRIs and blood tests to monitor my condition closely. The type of tumor I have is similar to the one that affected Steve Jobs, but with a crucial difference: mine was diagnosed early, allowing for proactive management. Although there are no immediate treatment options available, my doctors are optimistic about future therapies and have included me in potential clinical trials.
Living with Uncertainty
While the uncertainty of my diagnosis can be daunting, I strive to maintain a proactive attitude. I view this experience as an opportunity to enhance my emotional and physical well-being. Therapy has been instrumental in helping me cope, and I prioritize spending quality time with loved ones. My focus has shifted from professional achievements to nurturing relationships that bring joy into my life.
Staying Informed and Engaged
I have undergone genetic testing for various cancers, including pancreatic and breast cancer, fortunately discovering that none are hereditary. My thirst for knowledge keeps me actively engaged in my health journey. I remain vigilant, knowing that my tumor is currently stable, but I acknowledge the need for ongoing monitoring.
The Power of Mindfulness
Am I scared? Absolutely! However, I take comfort in the high standard of care provided by my pancreatic specialists, who are dedicated to finding the best treatment options. Currently, I’m in stage I with no signs of tumor growth, but I anxiously await my next scan. Sharing my story feels like a double-edged sword, but I believe in the power of transparency.
Finding balance amidst life’s chaos is crucial, and my diagnosis has served as a powerful reminder of mortality. I cherish every moment spent with family and friends. Though I am semi-retired, I have redefined my consulting business and embraced a firm "No Asshole Clients Rule." My newfound passion lies in advocating for democracy, encouraging retirees to engage and make their voices heard.
Embracing Life’s Journey
This journey has heightened my mindfulness, prompting me to focus more on my health, including regular exercise. Ultimately, I’m grateful for the lessons learned and the opportunity to live life more fully. Despite the challenges, I remain optimistic and committed to living each day with purpose and joy.